Ep 58 Leadership: Confronting gender bias

Show notes

In one of his most personal and courageous episodes, Stephen Gates uses Episode 58 to take on a topic many avoid: gender bias. Sparked by a powerful moment on stage at Adobe MAX, Stephen shares why men in leadership need to step up, listen harder, and get real about the way bias shows up in creative teams—and in themselves. This isn’t about perfection. It’s about awareness, accountability, and change.

Key Takeaways

1. Bias is Real—and Subtle

• Gender bias isn’t always loud. It’s not just discrimination or harassment.
• Often it’s unconscious: tone-policing, being overlooked, or being heard differently.
• Subtle bias is harder to call out—which is why it’s often more dangerous.

2. There Are 9 Types of Bias You Need to Watch For

• Conformity Bias: Going along with the group, even when it’s wrong.
• Beauty Bias: Assuming appearance equals ability.
• Affinity Bias: Favoring people who feel “like us.”
• Halo/Horns Effect: Letting one trait skew your whole perception.
• Similarity Bias: Wanting a team that looks and thinks like you.
• Contrast Effect: Judging someone by comparison, not on their own.
• Attribution Bias: Taking credit when things go right—blaming others when they don’t.
• Confirmation Bias: Seeing what you want to see to prove yourself right.

3. It’s Not Just a ‘Women’s Issue’—It’s a Leadership Issue

• Men in leadership must acknowledge, not ignore, their blind spots.
• Don’t be a “savior.” Be an advocate. Ask questions. Hold people accountable.
• Equal footing doesn’t happen without active, intentional effort.

4. Action Starts with Awareness

• Calibrate performance reviews to standards—not personalities.
• Stop using male-default language like “Hey guys.” Small habits reveal big bias.
• Replace silence with curiosity: ask women how they’re experiencing your team.

This episode isn’t a mic drop—it’s a starting point. Bias is baked into our culture, but that doesn’t mean we’re off the hook. Leaders—especially men—need to stop pretending we don’t see it and start doing the work to fix it. Because real leadership isn’t about being right. It’s about being better.

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